i have met 3 dudes as friends and installed using them. OkCupid’s pretty trustworthy too (thus far i am 3 for 4).
We have better luck on grindr than A4A.
I have heard some pretty stories that are scary A4A.
Then once more again, i am hot. Hot individuals have better luck on these websites.
I am hoping there is a backlash and individuals abandon these apps in droves, and then groups open up once more. Groups for which you can relax and communicate with individuals.
A4A’s primary market appears to be „users“, in the place of „cruisers“.